Why do I keep self-sabotaging things that are actually good for me?

The job, the relationship, the opportunity — everything is finally going right, and something in you starts quietly pulling at the threads until it all unravels.

Self-sabotage isn't stupidity. It's usually fear wearing a very convincing disguise — fear of success, of being seen, of having something real to lose.

Have you ever destroyed something good without fully understanding why — and have you ever figured out what you were actually afraid of?